The ‘Men’ in Menstruation
Dec 9 2020 2 min read
Gender inequality is one of the underlying causes why feminine hygiene has been ignored. Unequal levels of dominance between men and women lead to the voices of women and girls not being heard in families, neighborhoods, and projects in decision-making.
These have led to societal taboos, stigma, and shame around menstruation, including the belief that menstrual blood and menstruating women themselves are impure, which is common in several societies.
Men and boys can help women and girls effectively manage menstruation through various social domains. MHM is regarded as a ‘women’s problem, which is to be addressed inside four walls with no male involved , and therefore it seems as though they do not need to express their issues in the home, community or society. Men and boys influence the experiences of women and girls with menstruation management of hygiene (MHM) through many positions, like husbands, fathers, brothers, teachers, peers, teachers, leaders of the society, entrepreneurs, employers and policymakers.
There is a need to include men in this deeply tabooed Subject to eliminate the stigma of menstruation. Another focal point of involving men in menstrual issues is to shift the social norms and negative perceptions of menstruation, thereby encouraging the concept of better MHM.
HOW CAN IT BE DONE ?
1. An inclusive approach in which men are equal partners ensures greater support. It contributes to the effective empowerment of the entire community, particularly Girls and women.
2. The involvement of men and boys through the development of platforms for open discussion can enable men and boys to recognize the value of MHM, as well as reproductive health, women’s self-esteem and empowerment problems.
3. For effective MHM, it is essential to have toilet facilities along with water and soap so that females have a safe place to change and clean themselves. For this sensitization of men is essential as they make decisions on investment and making policies.
4. It is important to direct school management and teachers on MHM. Educating male teachers is equally important. The provision of an MHM-friendly environment in schools, including awareness raising and toilets for girls with sanitary napkin disposal facilities, has been seen as helpful in increasing the attendance of adolescent girls in schools.
Few stories from peers that will give some insights on how you can put the women in your life in a good mood.
STORIES
1. I was so nervous to not have mom around, the second time I got my periods. It was all still so new to me. Pleased to see my dad preparing my favourite cuisine. Kept besides my bed was a packet of sanitary napkins and a heat bag
2. We’ll hang out some other day. I want to stay with my wife today. I’ll collect few painkillers from my way back home - said a caring husband
Men as husbands, fathers, brothers, teachers, peers, colleagues, boyfriend’s can influence women’s menstruation experience in many ways. Curiosity kills the cat? We say kill the curiosity, discuss menstruation with boys and men, not limiting it to whispers among girls.
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Thank you so much for sending in your stories! PadCare Labs has truly enjoyed reading all of them and relating to most of them..
Here are our top 3 picks from the lot that will surely put a smile on your face -
No girl can ever forget her first period. Neha Nakoda, currently doing her MBA still recalls the first time she became acquainted with menses and how it truly changed her.
“Today it is normal but it was not normal then.
It was a fine night but the next morning was unusual. It was the day when I woke up with blood and stain. I had got my first period. Although I knew that period was a thing with girls of my age, I did not know what exactly it was. Assuming it to be some sort of injury I carried on with my daily schedule and left for school. It was only during my break that I got to know I had got my first period when my mom came to my school to pick me up unexpectedly. She figured it out from the stain on my clothes from previous night. Even though I knew about periods it felt like a shock when it actually happened to me. One of the reasons for embracement was the festival like celebration which was apparently a ritual in my community, where in all the ladies from the family showed up with sweets and gifts to shower their blessings on me.
Today we can talk normally on this topic but unfortunately there are many girls in remote areas of the country who don’t understand and aren’t even taught about what are periods, how natural they are and how to effectively deal with them. We as a society need to spread awareness among not only the young girls but every individual irrespective of gender. So that the barrier in communication regarding this topic gets eliminated and no girl ever has to face problems because of periods.”
Such traditions and customs truly highlight how important menstruation in a woman’s life is, and how it should be cherished and celebrated and not seen as dirty or unclean. It’s our turn to celebrate the first period of our daughters, sisters, friends and any girl out there who is made to feel bad about her periods.
After the first period, going to school is always dreadful. Especially in the bright white PT uniform! None of those enthusiastic female leads from Sanitary Napkin advertisements prepare girls to be less anxious about staining.
Deepti Lele, a working professional in pharma industry and full-time mother of one bubbly 7-year-old, talks about one such school day -
“My most memorable story was an incidence when I was in 8th grade - We had white PE uniforms, and on a particular heavy bleeding day, I stained my bright white skirt. My teacher led me to the medical room to help me clean my skirt, change into a fresh pad and handed me a new skirt from the school reserves. All of this happened without saying a word. Clearly, I was scared, embarrassed and in pain.
After I had changed, she simply smiled and said... “It happens all the time. Don’t worry. You’re in safe hands”... And then as she was about to drop me off to the class she stopped and said... “Don’t lie about what happened. In case you find anyone else in your place, step up and help out. Welcome to the world of adults”. This was an eye opener for me in many ways.”
All girls will forever be thankful for those understanding and empathetic teachers and wardens who have not just made us feel comfortable and cared for, but also taught us how we should support each other especially during such unwanted episodes that we have no control over.
Though boys often shy away while discussing about menstruation, we do believe that those very shy boys will be vocal to make sure they provide the best care for the women in their lives, and it could very well be by choosing the correct sanitary napkin brand. Samridhi Pandey, working in the development sector, passionate about gender studies shares one such cute story -
“I’ve never hidden my pads while carrying them to the changeroom, or hushed about my periods or pain and cramping to anyone ever.
My most memorable period memory is of the time when I had asked my mom to get me a packet of pads and she had went to the store with my brother. Being the typical Indian mom she obviously wanted to lift some groceries too, and my brother is 6 years younger to me and when my mom was randomly selecting any napkin packet for me, he said “No she doesn’t use this one, get the green one..” and to much horror of other aunties in the convenience store, their face was wearing the expression of “haye ram dekho kya bol ra h ye ladka”.... I felt happy because he was in std 5 when you don’t get to learn “that” chapter...”
Apart from just memorable incidents, everyone has a period ‘coping mechanism’ , something to ease your mood.
Dr. Smita Kale, we do agree with you, chocolate do help and they do put you in a wonderful mood. Thank you for sharing this tip with us.
We thank each one of you for sending in your story. We hope you enjoyed reading these stories just as much as we did.
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A PCOS Tell-All
Sept 25 2020 3 min read
As the month of September comes to an end, number of events and webinars have managed to shed light on girls’ growing concern of PCOS.
According to PCOS Challenge Association “Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) is a serious genetic, hormone, metabolic and reproductive disorder that affects women and girls”. PCOS, is a hormonal condition that girls suffer from mainly during their childbearing years. This condition in some cases could affect their ability to conceive.
In the past 7 - 8 years the number of girls getting diagnosed with PCOS has increased significantly. 3 to 4 out of 10 girls suffer from PCOS and may not be entirely aware of it. The awareness around the subject is yet to gain the necessary attention. For the same reason the month of September has been declared as the PCOS/D awareness month.
In regular scenario a woman’s body releases one egg from the ovary somewhere around the 15th day of menstruation. However, in case the female suffers from PCOS, the egg gets trapped inside the ovary and fluid accumulates around it, which later forms bubble-like structures called a cyst. Over the course of time many such cysts may form, which could eliminate the woman’s ability to reproduce.
PCOD/S is not curable as of yet, however one can either prevent it or control and manage it if diagnosed.
The symptoms of PCOS are often neglected and not too evident till the girl’s menstrual cycle becomes Irregular and ultimately stops completely. Most girls get diagnosed only after they’ve skipped their period altogether for months at a stretch. that they realize that there could be a problem.
The symptoms could be more than one and not necessarily visible and noticeable at the beginning. Some of the more prominent and well documented symptoms are irregular menstruation cycle, acne, weight gain, unwanted hair growth on parts of the body which previously did not grow hair, excessive hair loss from the scalp and a blackish appearance on the neck.
PCOS is called a lifestyle disorder because it may be caused due to the girl’s daily routine and emotional wellbeing. The most common cause identified is unhealthy eating of junk food with higher Glycemic Index Number (GI number). GI number is the rate at which the body converts food into glucose. In addition to the food intake, lack of daily exercise and physical activity and high stress levels could be an additional cause. In many cases lack of sleep along with the afore mentioned causes may lead to PCOS.
Family tendencies should also be closely monitored. In case a woman from the family is suffering from PCOS there is a higher tendency that her sister, daughter or relative could also develop PCOS mainly due to similar lifestyle habits.
Many medical professionals have stated that the easiest way to reverse the cycle of PCOS is –
1. To get at least an hours’ worth of exercise in a day
2. A diet that is rich in proteins and cuts down on sugars and carbohydrates.
3. Minimum of eight-hours of sleep every night is also essential in maintaining a healthy body, especially in the long run.
However easy it may sound; it hardly ever is. Many women suffer with the fear and anxiety of not being able to conceive which further takes a toll on their mental health and affects their physical wellbeing.
Many girls are shy and fearful to even tell their mothers about the problems and may completely lose confidence and self-esteem seeing their bodily changes. Awareness around the subject is extremely important as it may lead to further discussions and make young stronger to deal with the problem.
As the month of September ends becoming successful with number of events, webinars and informative sessions being conducted by various organizations working for the awareness for PCOS, let’s not limit the discussion to a month but continue our fight to make fearless, motivated and strong with deal with any challenge that comes their way.
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The ‘Period’ stressed by COVID-19
Oct 21 2020 3 min read
The Covid 19 pandemic has jeopardized and destroyed the world at large in almost every sector. India being one of the sufferers, has lost its charm and has headed towards stunting. There are a few sectors where India was already lacking behind which has become worse due to the pandemic. For instance, menstrual hygiene management was already an underrated and ignored issue in India.
The study by the Menstrual Health Alliance of India (MHAI) was released during an online workshop held by Dasra, a philanthropic organisation in partnership with Change.org. MHAI shared its findings from a rapid survey conducted online amongst 67 organisations involved in relief work during COVID-19 across India, Africa and other nations. The survey assessed the status of production, distribution and access to menstrual hygiene products to understand challenges and propose recommendations for relief work.
The study based upon the findings of the survey stated that 62% respondents indicated that access to menstrual hygiene products through regular channels had become challenging, while 22 per cent said they did not have access at all.
Some key challenges included in the Advocacy Brief of MHIA’s report were the following:
1. Continuing taboos and restrictions related to menstruation.
2. Limited access to sanitary pads.
3. Limited access to social support.
4. Restricted access to sanitation facilities.
5. Anxiety and stress over how to manage menstruation.
6. Disrupted manufacturing of menstrual hygiene products.
7. Broken supply chains for menstrual hygiene products.
As the decision to allow production of essentials was made it was unclear to many how affordable pads would be made available to girls. This pandemic has further worsened the ‘PeriodPoverty’ not just in India but across the world. Periods don’t stop during the pandemic, and thus menstrual products are as essential to all women as food is to all humans.
While women across were suffering during the lockdown quietly, the women who became victims of COVID-19 directly, had even bigger problems to deal with.
A survey conducted by Menstrual Hygiene Alliance India (MHAI) in April 2020, realized that 82% of the organizations faced unavailability of sanitary napkins and other necessary equipment required.
If such organizations faced such shortages, the condition in hospitals and isolation camps cannot even be imagined. The women who were isolated or admitted, including the nurses working in hospitals couldn’t visit the pharmacy or ask anyone to bring them the sanitary napkins to prevent infection. The taboo forced these women to resort to the use of re-useable cloth. This re-useable cloth is more prone to spread infections and various other diseases and during this pandemic, the risk was tripled.
The growing urgent demand for masks, 58% of small and medium manufactures of sanitary napkins and other alternatives were not able to operate or were on the verge of shutting down due to lack of funds and raw materials. 37% of the rest manufacturers stopped operating completely. Most of the sanitary napkin manufacturers had started manufacturing masks, considering at its urgent requirement, and the production of sanitary napkins and its alternatives depleted, resulting in severe shortage and nearly no access to these products in pharmacies at affordable prices.
The few women who did have access to sanitary napkins timely, also suffered unknowingly. The sanitary napkins that were disposed were either lying in the dustbins for many days without due to lack of collection services or not handled properly by waste pickers with the fear of getting infected. These sanitary napkins were ignored and burned in wrong piles of waste resulting in soil and air pollution or spreading more infection which became a much bigger issue.
After the end of first lockdown, businesses started re-functioning, the other important sectors like pharmaceutical industry, food industry etc. were paid more attention to regain the lost business and uplift the falling economy. And hence, menstrual hygiene management and its practices were ignored again. Now with changing times, these sanitary napkin manufacturing companies and other organizations which work on menstrual hygiene management have started to operate again.
It time we recognize these organizations be it, NGOs, small Self-Help groups, Small and Medium enterprises producing sanitary napkins and support them in our little way by contributions or distribution. Many distributions drives were successfully carried out by many individual groups and NGOs that saw immense support from citizens. However, it is important not to neglect a problem as grave as Menstrual Hygiene Management, irrespective of the circumstances.
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A Happy Period - Myth or Reality?
Oct 27 2020 4 min read
Happy Period? Sounds like a joke, right? To all the girls who suffer from Cramps, Mood Swings, Pimples, and what not, will definitely say that Happy Period is a utopian scenario! A woman goes through it all every month. No use crying over it. Instead we have summarized a few tips to make you feel comfortable and happy during your period.
1. TAKE A WARM SHOWER
A warm shower helps you reduce period cramps. It will help you to minimize the disgust due to sanitary napkins, tampons or menstrual cup. It will instantly out you in relaxed mood!
2. EAT HEALTHY
From feeling nauseated, to craving for a particular food, a menstruating woman experiences it all during her period. It is very difficult to really define what kind of food a person would prefer to eat, thanks to the hormones.
However, Inflammation can result in an increased level of cramps and pain, thus no matter how hard it is, avoiding processed food, salty food and the one that has high sugar content is recommended. Besides these, food made up of white flour like bread, pasta is a strict NO. It can cause instant period related bloating and unwanted weight gain.
Studies suggest that eating lots of fruits, vegetables and nuts help relieve cramps and menstrual pain. Anaemia is a common occurrence due to heavy loss of blood in some women, for them especially indulging in food which is in rich iron like, dark chocolate, spinach, oyster, beans and lentils is advised.
Whether on periods or not, staying hydrated always makes one feel better. Drinking plenty of water can help you uplift your mood and energize you. And how can one stay away from coffee? Caffeine in small amounts can boost your energy level and give a boost to your creative and productive side.
3. EXCERSISE
Exercising is probably the last thing that you want to do during your period. Totally agreed! But Exercising release endorphins and endorphins make you happy. So, just take a light walk or light cardio. This could really make you feel better by increasing your blood flow and reduce bloating. You can also go for basic stretching exercises – Forward bends, twists. If you don’t feel like stretching, lift light weights. Oh wait, did you know Dancing is also counted as exercise? So, turn the music on and dance to your heart’s desire
4. YOGA
Try basic yoga stretches that relax your muscles associated with your abdomen and reproductive system.
• Head to knee pose: It will help you relieve anxiety, fatigue, headaches and menstrual cramps
• Inverted Leg pose: It improves blood circulation. Helps you focus and be more productive (Much needed during periods).
• Child’s position: If you suffer from muscle and joint aches during menstruation, this pose is a boon.
5. MASSAGE YOUR ABDOMEN
It relaxes your muscles and helps you in relieving menstrual pain and cramps.
6. GET GOOD SLEEP
Take short naps during the day if needed and have a sound sleep during night.
7. BE HAPPY
Most important of all keep yourself in a good mood. Listen to music, paint, hang out with friends or treat yourself at a fine dine. Do whatever you like. Pamper yourself!
Periods are a time of emotions for many women. And let’s not forget the people surrounding them too. We all have heard a lot of stories about periods and talked about them in our social groups too.
Let us make conversing about these a norm. Write to us about your most memorable period story, be it embarrassing, funny, motivational , your first experience or even how you keep yourself happy. Write to us of your positive or negative experiences, male or female and get featured on our next blog.
Next week, we talk about ‘ Period Stories.’ So tell us about yours today.
We aim to rebuild the way people experience washrooms. PadCare is a futuristic and eco-friendly menstrual hygiene disposal solution centred around the dignity of womanhood. Become a subscriber to share our vision.
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The 'Period' stressed by COVID-19
One problem has time and again been ignored......
The Period Tales
Thank you so much for sending in your stories! PadCare Labs has truly enjoyed reading all of them and relating to most of them. Here are...
A Happy Period - Myth or Reality?
Painful periods are a struggle for more than half the female population and there's no way out. But there are things you can do to make it...
The ' MEN ' in Menstruation
Gender inequality is one of the underlying causes why feminine hygiene has been ignored. Unequal levels of dominance between men and...
A PCOS Tell-All
It is very surprising that awareness about PCOS, inspite of it being such a common genetic, metabolic and reproductive disorder is so low.
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